Blog: What Happened to My Marriage – Part 3

The Blame Game, man, woman, husband, wife, arguing, fighting, communication

So today, I’m going to deal with this common question:

The Blame Game, man, woman, husband, wife, arguing, fighting, communication

1) Whose Fault Is It?

One of the most common traps in marriage is the Blame Game. And man, once you get on that cycle, it will never stop spinning. To oversimplify, he stops giving attention, she gets resentful and stops giving sex. He feels sexually shut out, so he shuts down. She has a shut down husband which infuriates her, because she so hungrily wants to connect. And ’round and ’round we go. Continue reading “Blog: What Happened to My Marriage – Part 3”